I'm not sure if you remember me, my name is Jean (Tabler) and I was a friend of your sister Sharon. I lost my youngest daughter (age 36) this past year and I know what you must be going through. It is hard to give up a a child no matter how old, they are your child. It is not the correct order of things for parents to bury their child. I just wanted to offer my sincere sympathy and to tell you that I am praying for you and your entire family. God bless you.